betty crocker dairy or pareve?

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Hi the following two items have an OU D on them , i was wondering if the they are really dairy or can i prepare the cake to have it after a meal thank you Betty Crocker Cake Mix Super Moist Double Chocolate Swirl: INGREDIENTS: SUGAR, ENRICHED BLEACHED FLOUR (WHEAT FLOUR, NIACIN, IRON, THIAMIN MONONITRATE, RIBOFLAVIN, FOLIC ACID), COCOA PROCESSED WITH ALKALI, PARTIALLY HYDROGENATED SOYBEAN OR COTTONSEED OIL, LEAVENING (BAKING SODA, SODIUM ALUMINUM PHOSPHATE, DICALCIUM PHOSPHATE, MONOCALCIUM PHOSPHATE, ALUMINUM SULFATE), WHEAT STARCH, MODIFIED CORN STARCH, PROPYLENE GLYCOL, MONO- AND DIESTERS, LACTOSE, SALT, MONO- AND DIGLYCERIDES, CORN STARCH, MODIFIED WHEY, XANTHAN GUM, SODIUM-STEAROYL LACTYLATE, DATEM, ARTIFICIAL FLAVOR . Betty Crocker Frosting Dark Chocolate : SUGAR , WATER, PARTIALLY HYDROGENATED SOYBEAN AND COTTONSEED OIL , COCOA PROCESSED WITH ALKALI , HIGH MALTOSE CORN SYRUP, WHEAT STARCH , CONTAINS 2% OR LESS OF: SALT , DISTILLED MONOGLYCERIDES , POLYSORBATE 60 ,CITRIC ACID, CORN STARCH, SODIUM-STEAROYL LACTYLATE, SODIUM ACID PYROPHOSPHATE, ARTIFICIAL FLAVOR, NONFAT MILK, FRESHNESS PRESERVED BY POTASSIUM SORBATE., CONTAINS MILK INGREDIENTS