Kissing the Hand

Question

Dear Rabbi Abadi, Oh dear! I think there has been a misunderstanding in the 1/23/2005 message. It never occurred to me that you would think I was asking for myself! After almost getting over the initial shock of the response, I do see some humor in it, but unfortunately far more embarrassment than humor. Let me ask the question again—this time more correctly. It is the Sephardic way for a man to kiss the hand of a Rav to show honor. Are you saying that if one’s stepfather is a Rav that this kavod should not be extended to him? Respectfully and sincerely, Dolores Bender White