Oneg Shabbat response

Question

This whole Oneg Shabbat is out of hand now, who is anyone to say what Oneg is, Oneg is between man and his creator, to generalize Oneg as "learning" is ludicris, if a person is living a life of emet and is confortable with what they do within the confines of halacha then who is anyone else to say otherwise. Rabbi Abadi is advocating Emet, not the trickled down version of Judaism we practice today. People hide TVs in thier closets and bedrooms, they sneak to the movies and run in quick to get a Slurpee, YOU THINK GD DOESNT SEE????? The point here is that one should be truthful and not play these extierior games that have become the norm for our generation. the difference between the first Bet Hamikdash and the Second is that by the first we were open and honest with Hashem, we told him our troubles and cried for his help, we were honest , so Hashem was honest with us and told us when we would have our next Bet Hamikdash, by the second one we lied, we hid, we pretended he wasnt there and we all know what happened, we werent told when we would have our Bet Hamikdash again. If your honest with yourself and Hashem, I believe our creator will reciprocate. Lets stop these games. We need Moshiach...