re re preacher yael

Question

I am long time visitor to this website and a generous supporter of R’ Yitzchak Abadi’s Kollel and I am frankly appalled by the way yael’s questions were answered. I am not necessarily agreeing with all her views. But the main issue is not if she is right or wrong, rather how she was treated. Someone who asks a shaila and specifically says she doesn’t want the shaila to be posted, why is the shaila posted? Furthermore how can you call her arrogant in a public forum. Where is the ben adam le’chavairo? How can you say “if she was worth responding to..”? I don’t think one has to be a learned talmid chacham to know she was not treated properly. What really moved me to write this, was one someone else wrote in and you just encouraged the bashing of this jewish girl! Let us not lower ourselves to simply scorning someone who thinks differently than us. Whether she is correct or not, a public apology is called for! I am looking forward to your response.