tehilim

Question

i used to read some tehilim when visiting at the cemetery...... now what should i do??

Answer

Answered by Aaron Abadi

Don't visit the cemetary! There is a lot more loss than gain. Just to go once in a while to graves of Tzaddikim. The dead relatives don't want you visiting. They can't serve tea or anything. They will be there to greet us when we arrive upstairs. Many of our Poskim had serious problems with visiting cemetaries. Lots of unwanted creatures hanging around there. Not a safe place.... Saying Tehillim is wonderful, but only as a learning style, where you understand what you are saying. Not davening it! Not a bad idea to say 1 a day, instead of 30-40. AA