Father/Shower/Shabbos

Question

I asked the original question. JasonJones: Why does it have to be a "she". Where I live it does seem like many men have forgotten what a shower is, but the doesnt mean we cant correct ourselves. Its a shame that man cant want to take a shower on shabbos and not be slander by his father and then called a "she". Finally I can deal without a shower on shabbos, but would feel much better with one.... (Besides, you obviously haven't been around the block. This person will just get alienated from the excess restrictions. So sneak a shower, big deal!) I just want to do the right thing. On a different topic: My bathing suit is nylon on the side and polyester inside. Is this ok for shabbos swimming? Thanks again Adam