NEGIAH
Question
IF I COULD CONTROL MYSELF WILL NOT BEING SHOMER NEGIAH THAT IT WILL NOT LEAD TO ANYTHING MORE THEN TOUCHING IS THERE STILL A PROBLEM OF SHOMER ? AND IF I FEEL THAT THIS IS THE ONLY WAY THAT I COULD CONTROL MYSELF FROM NOT DOING ANYTHING MORE IS THERE ANY DIFFERENCE
Answer
Answered by Aaron AbadiYou must follow the rules of the Chachamim. Shlomo Hamelech said to himself, "I'll buy horses and marry too many wives & it won't effect me." The Torah testifies that he was wrong. & he was Shlomo Hamelech.... AA